Paul’s description of Onesiphorus (2 Tim. 1:16-19) has been the subject of many articles, even of entire sermons. Paul describes Onesiphorus as one who had refreshed Paul’s spirit, was not ashamed of Paul’s chains, went out of his way to find Paul in Rome, and had also helped Paul in Ephesus.
As I reread Paul’s description of Onesiphorus, my mind turned to the “others.” Thankfully, Onesiphorus did the things Paul describes, but the text leaves various questions unanswered. Were there others who had the same opportunity but did not act? Were there others with the opportunity to visit Paul in prison and refresh his spirit? Were there others who could have sought out Paul but did not? Were some of those “others” ashamed of Paul’s imprisonment? Were there others with opportunity to help who did nothing?
Paul was grateful for the love shown by Onesiphorus, and he prayed God’s mercy on him. Perhaps Paul had also received help from others but mentions Onesiphorus because he was outstanding in his assistance and encouragement. But one can also wonder if Paul’s heart was perhaps breaking as he considered those who could have helped but did not.
You have perhaps known the hurt. The “friends” and “brothers” you thought were dependable turned out not to be so. Those you expected to stand with you deserted you. The refreshing word went unsaid. The encouraging visit never came. You expected that your friends and brothers in Christ would do for you as they would want you to do for them.
Praise God for Onesiphorus. Sometimes one positive can overcome a lot of negatives. It was so for Paul. Be a positive in someone’s life today–you can make all the difference.