This weekend is the Tulsa Workshop (ISWW = International Soul Winning Workshop). I will not be at the workshop today because Jan and I will attend Harvey Young’s funeral in Fort Gibson. These two events–the workshop and Harvey’s funeral–converge in my mind today because of a conversation Harvey and I shared exactly five years ago …
Category Archives: Death-Funerals
The Funeral: to an unknown “god” or “God”
The friends and relatives assemble, the hushed whispers tell a story of layers of grief unexpressed, a thick fog that often envelops the valley of death. We need words of comfort, so we call a minister whom no one knows, least of all the deceased who was by all accounts never much of a church-goer …
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Talking about death–does my speech betray me?
Most have heard the phrase, “Your speech betrays you.” The phrase seems to have roots in the biblical account of Peter’s denial of Jesus since he was identified in part by his speech (Matthew 26:73). You probably know some of the contemporary applications: Christians who curse, people who say one thing and do another…. You …
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What is Your Life?
Today I will attend the funeral for the mother of one of my elders. This brother in Christ is a dear friend, and we work together in mission activities. Jan and I have driven eight hours to be here. We will make the same journey in reverse today as we return home. Why? What is …
Tribute: Carl Heffington
I received word last night that our dear brother in Christ, Carl Heffington, has gone to be with his Lord. Jan and I first met Carl and Claire during a trip to Guatemala. They were seeking to make a difference in their little part of the world. They are examples of what every Christian can …
Another Funeral
I just came back to my office from lunch with the family. I will leave for the funeral home in a few minutes. Death is always surprising but never should be. We merely participate in the rhythms of life. We gather to celebrate life–we gather to acknowledge death, and along the way we establish memories. Funerals are …
Carl Capers: A Tribute
Births are part of life. This week Jan and I are anticipating the birth of another granddaughter. Funerals are equally part of life. Many in our society seek insulation and isolation from death. I am amazed at how many young people have never attended a funeral. I am on the “call list” for a local funeral home–a minister on …